I must admit, leading up to it, we were a little nervous. Especially Andel. He was pretty confident that Jorja would be fine (in fact, that she'd love the idea of spending the night with us), but he was not convinced about Ethan (apparently, as a mother, I don't really get the panic that sets into a man's heart when he's looking after a child that's only looking for their momma). I just didn't really give that much thought (perhaps I was just hoping for the best!).
So come Friday, after savouring the last few minutes of silence at the office, I went to fetch the boys from daycare. Ethan was just waking from a nap, so it was touch and go for a moment there, but soon enough he and Zac were in the car, singing along to African Tree House, and eating dry cocoa-pops (courtesy of Yaya).
We got home and the boys played. Quietly. Without fighting. And Ethan was not looking for his Mom. Andel and I were a little skeptical! Then Jorja joined us after an outing with her Ma, and we were certain it would get a little crazy. Well, sure enough, the volume increased (exponentially), but other than that, they were still all fine.
Come 21h00, all the kids had eaten, we'd watched Ice Age, and Jorja and Zac were in bed fast asleep. Ethan joined them a little while later, and at 22h00, Andel and I were sipping warm drinks, and watching The Heat.
Ok, so they did wake up during the night. But only once. And because the one woke the others, they were all awake at the same time (which is way better than them all waking up at different times). And within an hour (after I was on the couch with all 3 of them), they were all fast asleep in their respective beds. And that's where they stayed until 07h30!
|When all else fails, huddle them all together|
When PJ and Ash got back on Saturday, just before lunch, they could hardly believe it: the boys were napping in the room, and Jorja was quietly watching an episode of Recess with Andel. Go Team!
|Uncle Andel's girl|
|Thank God for small mercies!|
While I'm in no rush to become a permanent mother of 3, it's was certainly a fun-filled adventure, that I'm pleased to say went very well. And what an accomplishment - and confidence booster - that is, as we are doing this again when PJ and Ash celebrate their wedding anniversary in December!
|PJ and Ashleigh's sweet, angel kids|